Safe Sex. Those two little words conjure up many and varied images to each of us: love, lust, excitement, intrigue, and ... responsibility.

Sex is a very natural, normal, even wonderful expression of love and devotion. Men love it. Women love it. Young lovers sneak out to get it. Older lovers stay in to have it. Young and old alike think they have the corner on the market.

Sex sells newspapers, TV shows, movies and magazines. Everyone is looking for it. Each of us are searching for the right mix, the right fit, something that will set us free and last forever.

Just how do we find the right balance between responsibility and freedom? The two ideas sound almost contradictory.

But if you really think about it, the answer is quite easy. It's like the songs and bumper stickers say, "Freedom isn't free." We have to be diligent, vigilant, and responsible to keep our freedom -- to be able to enjoy our freedom. And just like freedom in life, there is no freedom in sex without responsibility. Sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies lurk in the background of the irresponsible sector of society robbing them of the true joys and freedoms of sex.

Only when we accept the responsibility for maintaining a lifestyle that consistently employs safe sex, can we truly enjoy sexual freedom.

Condoms offer excellent protection against sexually transmitted diseases and when used alone or in combination with your favorite form of birth control, they can provide you with the freedom and peace of mind you need to be able fully appreciate your sexuality and that of your partner.

Removing fear and anxiety from your sex life can be as simple as choosing to use condoms each and every time you have sex. And knowing that you have done your part toward creating a relaxed and stress-free atmosphere can work wonders towards developing and maintaining the intimacy you desire.

Safe sex is the best sex.